Leave it to NPR to fixate on the dated wallpaper in the master bedroom while completely ignoring that the house is infested with termites and the foundation is sinking. Surely one of the more noteworthy problems with corporate America is the dearth of Asians in upper management. Just like the problem with the U.S. government is a lack of [insert minority of your choice] in prominent positions. Because, as having our first black president has shown…well, okay, nevermind. As I was saying, we’ve really got to do something about this bamboo ceiling thing.
The apparent reason for this critical shortage is that a lot of Asians aren’t properly acculturated. For instance, they’re unaware that in America you don’t get ahead by doing your job well, but by kissing the boss’s ass. There’s also something called the “Asian poker face.” This refers to the tendency among many Asians to refrain from smiling for no reason, a habit that seems to unnerve the whitefolk, who were raised to believe that it’s normal to go around with a blank expression of joy on your face at all times.
This last bit really gets me. I’m not Asian, but I’ve had that exact experience countless times in my life. More people than I care to remember have told me that I need to smile more, that I’m too serious, too quiet, too whatever, as if these were diseases that needed to be cured. I’ve had people tell me, after getting to know me, that they had thought that I had no personality, or that I was an asshole, or, in some cases, both. I must have gotten the wrong message from this, though, because it never occurred to me that I needed to be coached in the art of smiling on command. Instead, I came to the conclusion that these “all-American” types are either insecure children who need the constant reassurance of a smiling face, or else they’re petty authoritarians who’ve taken it upon themselves to police what they consider to be aberrant behavior, and, either way, that they weren’t worth wasting my time trying to impress. Besides, they shouldn’t be encouraged. The last thing we need are more hucksters trying to dazzle us with the whiteness of their teeth.